Recognizing the Early Warning Signs of an Abusive Relationship

Abusive relationships usually start with subtle signs that can be difficult to recognize. These warning signs can escalate quickly, which makes it important for you to be aware of them to protect yourself or others.

Extreme Jealousy

Jealousy in a relationship is the first sign of insecurity. An person who acts overly possessive, questioning who their partner interacts with, accusing them of flirting, or isolating them from family and friends is abusive. They may restrict your social life or career for fear of infidelity. 

Controlling Behavior

Abusers dominate the relationship, dictating where their partner goes, what they do, and who they talk to. They might monitor phone calls, check emails, or track their partner’s movements, which can extend to finances, dress code, and even the people they’re allowed to interact with.

Quick Involvement

An abuser rushes into a relationship, claiming instant love or a deep connection. They will pressure you partner for commitment early on and become overly charming and romantic, which can feel flattering but is ultimately manipulative.

Blaming Others

An abuser rarely takes responsibility for their own actions. They will blame others, often their partner, for any problems or outbursts they cause, creating a cycle of guilt and confusion.

Verbal Abuse and Cruelty

Abusers frequently degrade their partner, calling them names, belittling their achievements, or making hurtful remarks. In extreme cases, they may also harm animals or children, further demonstrating their lack of empathy.

Manipulation and Mood Swings

An abuser may switch from being loving and caring to angry or violent in an instant. These unpredictable mood swings create confusion, making the victim question whether the abuser truly has mental health issues.

Read: The Journey of My Life

If you’ve experienced an abusive relationship or recently gotten out of one, read The Journey of My Life by Krupisa Patel. Krupisa shares her personal experiences, including the challenges of surviving an abusive marriage. Despite the heartache and struggles she has faced, she has learned that there is always hope, even in the darkest of times. Her story is one of resilience and strength, and offers a message of perseverance to anyone facing similar hardships. Through these trials, Krupisa has discovered that the light at the end of the tunnel is always within reach. Now on Amazon.